Enraged Feminist vs Utah’s Sexy Dancers
March 22nd, 2008
“Dear Eric,
I’ve noticed that there are lots of scantily-clad young girls on your photo stream. Aren’t you afraid that you are going to offend 90% of your clients in Mormonville, USA and don’t you think that by giving these harlots a public place to flaunt themselves you’re perpetuating the stereotype that girls are merely sexy playthings?”
You should take those photos down or you’ll never find any work in this state!!!
– Enraged Feminist [Yes, this is actually how she signed!]
Whoah, Enraged. Calm down. First of all, those who would be so offended that they wouldn’t hire me are not the sort of people I want to work for anyway. Call it client darwinism. It’s a good thing. Trust me — I’m not hurting for business. In fact, I’m hiring interns to keep up with the workload. From a photographer’s business perspective, being true to my unique vision is my primary marketing strategy. My style and subjects are my brand, and what do you know — sex sells. The last thing I’m going to do is shoot some conservative idea of what people want to buy. I prefer to shoot what I love.
Anyway, these girls aren’t the primary subjects of my photographs. I mostly sell photos of the DJ’s and other performers. That’s where my real passion lies, and that’s where the real money is. They need photos for their presskits and promotions, and they’re willing to pay for them. Since most of them are from out of state, and unlikely to be conservative, my choice to include these girls in my photo sets has no negative impact on my bottom line.
Another interesting point is that photos of beautiful girls are far and away the most popular photos in my photo stream, and it’s a safe bet that many of my fans found me initially through one of those popular images.
As for your second argument, I’ve just had a discussion very much like this on the UtahRaves.com message board. Here’s a snippet of that conversation:
“And being the feminist that I am I think that they’re just ridiculous and perpetuate the image that women are sex toys here for the pleasure of certian perverts and macho sexist idiots.” – triciaprefect
“People said the same thing about Madonna.” – me
“Madonna was (is) unique.” – adrena_line
“So is Ms Easy. The point is that being sexy doesn’t always ‘perpetuate the image that women are sex toys,’ and some particularly strong women manage to be true to themselves and flaunt their sexuality in a way that is empowering and liberating to women.” – me
In another conversation, somebody accused me of being exploitive of these girls — using them to sell my photos and services as if it’s wrong to make money from anything that could be considered prurient. Far from feeling exploited, many of these girls are friends, and they respond enthusiastically when they see me. They plaster my photos all over their MySpace pages. They proudly display them to their friends, and many of them have asked me at one time or another for more formal photo shoots. These girls trust me because they know if there’s a photo they don’t want posted, I’ll take it down. None of them have ever complained to me about the way that I conduct myself. I think it’s telling that the people accusing me of exploitation are not the people being “exploited”.
We can argue until the cows come home about whether it’s wrong or right to post pictures of hot girls in skimpy clothing on the internet, but like any honest straight man, I like a dose of sexy in my photos now and then. Call me a sexist pig if you like, but consider this:
I celebrate the individuality and self expression of everybody I encounter in the nightlife scene, whereas, you assume that these girls are harlots, tear them down, and take the time out of your day to rant to me about it, just for trying to express themselves in a way you don’t like. You profess to be a feminist, but isn’t feminism about freedom and rights? These girls want the freedom and right to express their sexuality in an appropriate venue. Why should I deny them that, and refuse to take and post their photographs? They are part of the nightlife, and my job is to celebrate the nightlife, and all that it includes.
Since you asked me so politely to address this issue, here they are in all their bare-skinned glory: Utah’s sexy nightlife dancers.
What are your thoughts on this debate? Take a look at some of the girls in question, and then click the little comments button to chime in.
All I can say is wow to all those comments eric…shame shame shame on them….maybe they need to look at how they are as a parent if they are worried about outside influences. Maybe they should lock them up and not let them into the outside world of thier homes if they are so worried. Either that or EDUCATE them on all the bad influences that are out there in the big bad world. You can’t change ppl….especailly teenagers.I haev on e myself and am starting to have issues with boys etc…I don’t blame it on pictures I or she sees online. It is all part of growing up and parents need to change with the times and understand the world our children are growing up in. After all it isn’t the 1980′s for me anymore ( when i grew up). Things have changed tremendously since then.
Ew what a retard!
Tell her to go burn a bra.
You can post whatever you want. I’d be more concerned that the emaciated blonde chick on the left is creating an unhealthy image of “sexy”. Ask her how Auswich was and then give her a sandwich, FOR GOD’S SAKE!
Anyway… I love your photography and you just take pictures of what you think is beautiful. They’re not entirely unpleasant subjects to look at, however, I do miss your light studies with buddha statues and the like. I really enjoyed those and they gave your craft a lot more depth. Don’t let yourself get lumped into the lowly paparazzo category. Even your nudes spoke to me artistically more than these. But you are a nightlife photographer and you market yourself as such, and as far as that type of photography goes, you are very good at it. You have to judge these things for what they are. You can’t compare Ansel Adams to Dave LaChapelle.
eric, i think your pictures are beautiful, you are portraying a lifestyle in that picture, its not like you got those girls drunk, make them put those clothes on, and then took horible nasty pictures of them. every picture i have seen of yours have been great pictures of art, and its those girls bodies to do with as they want, isnt that what feminists say? anyway I just wanted to let you know that i love your pictures, and if they offend some people then thry dont have to look at them do they.:)
What’s the population of Mormonville, if I may ask?
Is it a very religious town?
Your pictures are great !!
Anyway being the devil’s advocate here:
if your town has a small population these sucker moms might easily build up a base against you if your income is solely from photography. They can easily use you as an example of what is making their kids go wrong. MTV, VH1, YouTube and MySpace are way ahead of you pertaining to racy content.
Unfortunately you have nothing to do with it; but that’s what they will make the town believe. I hope you can ride the storm that might be brewing or quash it before it becomes a big deal.
If those parents are so concerned they should monitor their kid’s use of the Internet… but then again kids have a way around that.
Keep shooting what you love… the world may not like it… it’s their choice
I like the comment you gave the “feminist” Good one Eric…burned her. After the so called bra burnings were done so women could dress and do as they please!
I agree with Maria Hamilton. It is to bad that people are so afraid of what they do not understand. I believe this person is both jealous and afraid of sexuality in general. It is sad that people can not just enjoy the fabulous photography instead of being wound up to the point of ridiculous for no good reason. If someone does not like the content of the photos then my advice to you would be move on. No one is holding a gun to your head forcing you to look at them. As for the parent who was saying you may as well be forcing her daughter to go to raves and take drugs, Maybe you dear lady should be more involved in your child’s life. If you have such strong feelings about the photographs then maybe you should be monitoring your child online and not worrying about what the rest of the world is looking at. Eric I think you are an amazing photographer. It saddens me that people get so hung up on what they believe is negative and can not focus on saying positive things to encourage people.
Eric, you are one of the nicest people I’ve come across on Flickr. Taking time to help aspiring photographers and newbies is just about the most awsome thing I’ve experienced here too. You’re photographs are great, and they are life. Some of us come from small towns, or maybe have kids and can’ t get out as much, some don’t have the means to travel… Flickr is a place to share our photographs and by doing so, sharing our small part of the world as we see it. That’s why I love it here. I am very gratefu to everyone here for that. I get to see”LIFE” as it happens in places that I may never get to see for myself. I feel sorry for those people who have such a hard time with your art – with life as you are fortunate enough to experience it. Shame on them. God loves us ALL, including the scantily clad party goers, rumour mongers, spinsters and haters.
I am those people don’t experence life the way you or those “harlots” do, and so what? We are all unique, isn’t that a great thing? It is not their place to JUDGE anyone. If they don’t like it, they don’t have to look. We are fortunate enough to have a choice in this life. They should be content in their (probably boring) lives, and leave others who’s experiences are different alone. You are not hurting anyone. As far as I’m concerned you are touching alot of people in a positive way with your art and your kindness.
You Eric, are one of the good guys. Keep your head up, and stay confident in what you do. You can’t change the way others react and respond to you or your work, but you can change the way you let it affect you. …”With a grain of salt”. Have a wonderful day Eric. Thank you for sharing your world with us.
sorry to here that there are people giving you crap for what the girls chose to do. dont let it get you down. they gave
you the ok to take the pic. anyway hope things go better for ya. keep in touch and when you get some free time we should hang out. catch ya later.
This is pretty much true in any field: If somebody is getting pissed off, it usually means you are doing something right and doing a darn good job at it.
ok as one of these so called “harlots” i figure i better put in my two cents..
i don’t understand how all these mothers can sit here and blame anyone but themselves for thier childs actions. what your children are doing is nobodys fault but your own.. you sit here and preach you religous values and blah blah blah… why are you so quick to blame someone else for the problems in your life? its not fair to someone like eric who is an amazing person doing an amazing thing.. i have been photographed by him many times and it is always such a joy to work with him. and guess what i have a children of my own.. and let me tell you i will never act like the feamle body is something to be ashamed of or something to hide.. i feel that is so closed minded and thats what i dislike so much about this state.. nobody here has an open mind to anything.. you just do what your tole and belive what you hear because that is all you know. i just find it sad that people can’t just let everyone do what makes them happy.. whether it is gogo dancing, going to raves, getting crazy piercings and tattoos and just living their life…
quit pushing your religous values or whatever on everyone else and take a look at your own life and worry about yourself.. what other people do is nobodys business but their own!!
ps thank you eric for all the amazing photos.. keep up the amazing work and know how much we all love and appreciate what you do!!!!
“joel said…
I’m sick and tired of all these sluts on flickr. why do you post this trash? you are no artist.
March 22, 2008 6:55 AM”
Eric is a phenomenal photographer. Don’t invalidate the art because you don’t like the subject.
On the topic at hand, I’ve made it pretty clear how I feel about it here: http://www.utahraves.com/showpost.php?p=124677&postcount=63
One thing to note, most of the girls in question are dancers, dressed in themed-costumes for our (and other promoters’ events). While they aren’t necessary to have at shows, they do draw a substantial amount of attendance.
[EDITED -- Insult me all you want, but leave my wife out of it. I made the choice to put myself out there and let other people see the sorts of things that go on behind the scenes. She did not ask for this attention.]
“You realize of course that the reason Eric goes out and shoots these girls is because his penis wants him to. he gets off by ‘shooting’ his phallic camera, paid for with ‘seed’ money, at the scantily clads. He thrives in grey area and lives off your money while living his eternal wet dream. Look closely at his eyes as you ask him about his trips to far away places with young women and bikinis. You might figure out that you are supporting a predator.”
pony_express: like many startup businesses, I have gone through a long period of very low budgets while I scraped together a portfolio in any way that I could. Most of the large new companies I know of started out in much the same way.
Maria has been very wonderful and supportive during this time. Things have picked up a lot since I first started out. Budgets aren’t quite as small anymore, and I’m relying less and less on her help.
This is nothing to be ashamed of. I will be eternally grateful for Maria’s patience as she drove me to gigs, trusted me to go on trips to shoot models on the beach, etc…
It’s easy to sit back and criticize other people’s lives, but in the end, I’ve worked my ass off and made something of myself, and my wife and I have managed to grow closer, despite all the stress.
Any other posts that mention my wife in a negative way will be deleted.
Play on.
This is getting really difficult for me, but I want to keep the negative comments (directed at me) intact. Believe me, I’ve heard far worse before. I got death threats the day my site hit the Digg homepage and my traffic skyrocketed.
It’s worth noting that the models and clients aren’t the ones posting mean messages.
So your wife can defend you and insert herself into the dialog but she can’t be a target? Unlike the other people who support or criticize you? Why not let her defend herself?
pony_express: Would you sit idly by if somebody walked up to somebody you love and started throwing jabs?
Why do you feel the need to attack innocent people on a blog behind a cloak of anonymity?
If you don’t have anything valid to add to the conversation, you’re done here.
Yep, this is the reason I do not go to Utah. It is a shame, I love the state but the puritan stuff is such a waste. I know some “former” mormon folk and the horror stories of how they had to live their lives is the real crime.
I know of your work as we have communicated a bit and I always wondered what flack you might be receiving because of where you live. I am not surprised to hear this as preaching about the evils of other’s lives while keeping the blinders on about your own seems to be a popular thing for these jokers.
Look at it this way, if you weren’t doing anything that was desired you would not get hated on so this is actually showing your popularity. I find it sad and funny that the woman blames everything else but herself for her daughter’s downward spiral. One photographer and sexy pics of women caused her to become a druggy? C’mon how stupid is that. That says nothing about her abilities as a mother and only shows that super restrictive upbringings play a major role in kids becoming messed up.
Tell her to go have a cup of coffee, drink a cocktail and complain to her husband’s “other” wives.
Wow I am truly amazed at the negative controversy a few sexy photos have caused for such a wonderful artist/photographer and the beautiful women he captures. I am featured in some these photos and I have to tell you I am no “harlot”. To get paid to dress like that or pose for the camera would definitely make me good money on the side but unfortunately it’s not like that. I dress and pose like that because I want to. I am a go go dancer and have been for many years now. Although I’ve had many photographers take pitchers of me none of them have captured the beauty like Eric Hamilton. He is a true professional.
To all those who hate on us: GET A LIFE! If you don’t like what you see, don’t look. I’ve had many positive comments and many negative comments addressed to me because of my involvement in the model/dancer industry and honestly I don’t care. You can say all the bad things you want and it will never hurt me. I will keep doing what I am doing. Your silly comments will never bring me down. I laugh when I hear things like “My daughter is taking drugs and going to party’s because of your pitchers.” OMG seriously I don’t force your kid to do anything. Maybe you should be a better parent and communicate with your child to see where they are going and what they are doing with there life.
Eric, thank you for bringing this to my attention. There is a lot more I could say in regards to this outrageous controversy but right now I have better things to do.
p.s. I’ll send ya pic’s from my next gig in Miami!
you probaly have more friends than those idiots who think this sort of photography is filth
great work you are doing keep it up
as for those so called religous idiots have they forgot what weekend it is
and as the big mn said let he who is without sin cast the first stone
and he didnt mind what mary magdolin did for a living
keep up the good work and dont let the buggers grind you down
It’s a subculture. Every generation has many subcultures. That’s it. This is one of them. Deal with it. And Utah is changing more and more everyday. They can’t stop it.
I’m in a good portion of these talked about photos!
and in my response… just as you and your wife had said “I love them.”
People are constantly taking cell phone pics while were dancing on stage…. that is flith… they just want an ass wallpaper shot. You on the other hand don’t shoot us to look like sleeze nor flith. If this women has anything to say I think she should say it to the thousands of girls going to these shows half naked. If they didn’t want to be seen that way then they wouldn’t dress it. You are in no way permoting the way they dress. We are the dancers, there to entertain… same as any club we have gogo gear on!!!
As you said “SEX SELLS.” I am a performer. I know when I get on stage in my lil outfits the crowd will go wild. It brings attention to the show. And honestly I love the attention.
I love the pictures you take of me doing what I love. I am a model and shoot regurally… In this business I have came to see some scandelous things/people. You my friend are not one. I wouldn’t say your a pervert in the slightest!!! When i had some slipige…. you were sure to ask my concerns as where to put them. When I told you that wasn’t what I was looking to put out, you told me you erased them. End of discussion, I know I can trust that.
So don’t let anyone get you down… and please never quit shooting us, because I love the pics. They are very classily done. Thanks for making my look beautiful!!! HEHEHE!!
also where the hell is my get lucky pics?? HMMMM….. I hope this lady hasn’t made you have second thoughts…. Cause I need them. hehehe!!!
hehehhe…. take crae, keep doing what you do. I love them, so does everyone else!!!
Tera: I haven’t forgotten. V2 rocks it. You know I’ll give them special treatment. =)
Thanks for your input.
haha that shit is funny, your one of the best photographers that I know. just cause you shoot chicks at raves doesnt mean anything, not to include that that is only one of the things you shoot when your hired out for a event, lol has she looked at your other photography! like tof the stages the DJ’s alll your other models, lol dont lissn to her man shes stupid and doesnt get it. I mean look at old paintings, people painted people naked and made scholptures and all that of naked people that that was concerderd art over everything else… idk people are just weird and love to talk shit and critize other people for what they do, when if they would just stop doing it to other people and look at there own life that they probley dont have room to talk shit on someoneelse for what they love to do…
You know, looking at your fashion stuff again…I don’t see one scantily clad Harlot! Sounds like this woman has other issues that need to be addressed. One would be controlling other people and forcing her beleifs on others…more feminatzi than feminist!
Eric Hamilton is the TRUTH.
He is an amazing photographer, whether his subjects are inanimate objects, myself, or women who choose to dress a certain way.
I have never seen a photographer capture moments, feelings and vibes like Eric can. Flipping through any EDM magazine, Eric’s portfolio of SLC’s events makes the rest of the world look boring and amature.
Any artist Eric photographs ends up using his pictures as thier main profile pic, including me.
Thank you Eric for what you do for this city.
Eric, unfortunately tis the world we live in. It’s unfortunate that with all the pictures on your site they have to zero in on the ones of the dancers at our shows. Do I like seeing girls dressed they way they do? Not necessarily but I don’t have to look. I can have my opinion and keep it to myself because who am I to judge?
Being one of the dj’s that have had the opportunity to shoot with Eric, I would like to express the fact that he does make you feel comfortable in your skin and takes incredible photos. I am definitely not as skinny or pretty as some of the girls in these photots but Eric just knows the right angles and lighting to make everyone feel like a star. I have been along his journey from almost the beginning and it great to see how much he has grown as a photographer.
Parents need to realize that these shows are not put on as a place for you kids to do drugs. In fact most of us that go don’t participate in that type of activty and most of the time don’t condone it. If your child is choosing to take drugs you need to realize they would do that even if these parties did not exist.
While I am here Eric I just want to thank you again for all you do. For working odd hours of the night, processing thousands of photos and making them available for the world to see!
PS Maria is amazing!
Eric, don’t listen to the haters. You are one of the nicest guys I’ve ever met and a wonderful photographer.
You can’t please everyone, so just please yourself. You aren’t doing anything wrong.
You and your wife deserve to be happy and live your lives free of torment. Please don’t listen to these hateful people. Don’t take their awful rants to heart, because you and your wife are amazing people.
It’s really hard to change someone’s ignorant opinions so just ignore them. Let them continue to live their blind pathetic lives, while you continue living the life that makes you and so many others happy.
You haven’t and aren’t doing anything wrong. You’re a good man and a good friend. Remember that.
die please
maria is an amazing woman, who actually TRUSTS her husband, if half the population could go as far as that then maybe the divorce rate wouldnt be so high. Just because he takes pictures that some seem cotroversial, but to me are no worse than the underwear ads in stores, and id rather look at them because they are done with more tact in some cases, most if not all of the people on here who have anything negative to say dont even know him, or maria so how can you judge their relationship??
I have known a few photographers and not one of them has ever wanted to take a picture to hurt, take advantage of, or do any other sick pererted thing that all of you people seem to think of.
You have the freedom to not look at those pictures, the girls in them have the freedom to not have them taken, but what gives you the freedom to judge someone by their profesion, someone you dont even know?
http://www.myspace.com/filthyduckstudio
Hello, Steven Hansen again. I thought this time i would give a face to my comment. I saw a post by “Joel.” It said you weren’t a photographer and he doesn’t want smut like yours on Flickr. blah blah blah.. I really wanted to see his work so i can tell if he had any barring on the photography communty. Anyone can slander, but not everyone can put weight behind it.
I think your live shots are studio quality. Anyone that can shoot like that has a fan out of me. Brilliant.
-Steven.
Eric, you’re not doing anything wrong. Some people just can’t seem to kick the habit of being offended.
It’s like any other addiction. Some people take drugs to feel like they’re alive, some people take offense to feel like they’re alive.
And anyway, a wise man once said, “There’s just no pleasing some people.”
As mormons, and as in many religions, we’re raised to believe that the world is and should be a particular way. As we grow older we realize that it’s more “should be” than “is”. As we become adults, we realize that “should be” is a debatable point, but also that the people who were trying to teach us about the way they wish the world could be had good intentions at heart, usually, anyway.
Life is what you make of it, so some people choose to live their life as though the world works the way they were taught it ought to work when they were children. And there’s nothing wrong with that, if they’re happy with it.
Things just get wacky when they start insisting that we stop messing with their fallacy by living our lives like normal human beings.
I’d like to chime in as one of the inhabitants of the Mormonville being scorned. Just like those getting thrown into a box that support the photographic choices of Eric, I hate Utah getting stereotyped as full of intolerant religious bigots. It simply is not true, and so many haters just perpetuate the myth.
In ever culture, and subculture for that matter, there are extremists and the mainstream. The mainstream of Utah happens to be more conservative than many places, but it is also not entirely intolerant.
I like to consider myself a conservative, yet I also have an open mind for others to hold their own values. I am sure I am not as conservative as others when it comes to photography as I find nothing wrong with Eric’s photos he has shared. His presence, capturing and sharing of photos really has nothing to do with creating the culture he is recording, rather celebrating the essence of it in the photographic art.
I tend shun all extremes, particularly when it comes to opinions. I am happy to exist in my beliefs and values, and happy to let others do the same. I am amazed at the strong feelings this topic brings out on both sides of the argument. Live and let live.
Its not Utah its everywhere. And no parent can blame anyone but themselves when it comes to there kids behavior. But as we all know they blame everyone but there kid and themselves
Since I am one of the girls in some of those pictures I figured I should probably say something and stick up for Eric and myself.
First off we are not sex toys. We are dancers. We may wear little clothes but believe me if you knew much about dancing for eight hours straight you would know that it gets hot and its easier to dance with less dragging you down. Eric is hired by the production companies to come and take our pictures. If you would look past your own issues you would see that Eric is a great photgrapher. One of the best in Utah. One of the hardest shots to capture is a dancer actually in motion. He does it with no problem.
I have taken the time to actually talk to Eric when he isn’t taking pictures and he is an incredible person. He isn’t taking these pictures because he is a pervert or anything like that. He is simply doing his job. As dancers we just happen to be part of the show he is hired to take pictures for.
ERIC YOUR AMAZING!!! Thank you for all the hard work you do and the incredible shots you take of us dancers and the shows. Don’t ever stop or let anyone else’s jealous words bring you down.
What Eric’s pictures do in this instance is like what “Suicide Girls” does, it shows the nudity of the female form in an ARTFUL BEAUTIFUL way. It celebrates the female form, not the opposite.
People will believe what they want to believe.
Mr. Hamilton has much respect and support regarding what he does, because he does it well.
This enraged feminist is, in all likelihood, enthralled by all the attention her inflammatory remarks have made. She has officially gained the moniker of internet “troll” due to this sort of behavior.
I’d like to congratulate her for making quite a large spectacle of herself in such a negative fashion.
This just goes to show.. those who cannot live and let live….
well, allow me to rephrase this as a quote (forgot the author though)
“Everybody dies. Not everybody really lives.”
Point is: You should live your life the way you see fit, and stay out of others affairs. K? Thx. BAI!
1. Even though I never say anything to you or on your pages I have looked at your work on MySpace and Flicker and you take amazing photos. Some are very beautiful and artistic and some are just great shots recording other people’s actions but you seem to be a great photographer nonetheless with a lot of knowledge and skills about working with lighting and a keen sense of timing.
2. I’m sorry that that mother is blaming you for her daughter’s clubbing and drug use. You have made it very clear in other posts that while you have enjoyed the rave and club scene for years you believe in doing so DRUG FREE. Your job is to be a photographer, not the morality police. What does she expect you to do? Tell her daughter “I’m sorry but I can tell you’re using drugs and I won’t photograph you.” That isn’t going to be motivation for her daughter to quit. She has to want to or hit rock bottom first. While I’m sorry for that mother’s pain about her daughter making some choices that she and I may disagree with, they are nonetheless, her daughter’s choices, and there is nothing that you are doing to make it worse.
3. It’s ironic that the people who claim to be so spiritual are the ones saying you’re better off dead or other sorts of horrible and vulgar insinuations. Very Christ like. It’s just giving religion in general a very bad name which offends me as a religious person. I may disagree with choices of other people or think they’re wrong but I would be no better by saying such things to them. If you believe in a cause do something about it in a civil and respectful way. Difference of opinion is allowed as are some ways of wanting to act on those opinions to make society a better place but I wish people could keep it more civilized.
4. From what I’ve read and seen there are two kinds of women who both consider themselves “feminists.” One says that women need to be treated completely respectfully, as a human being with a mind rather than as a sex object etc. and they object to women dressing provocatively and acting sexy to get attention etc. The other kind believes that part of a women’s power is their sexuality and that they should have every freedom to use it as they choose without being called a slut or whatever and that men being “dumb” enough to pay for such things simply shows the power that women have. I can see both sides of the debate even though I have my own religious views on modesty and immorality etc. But I know that not everyone does have those beliefs and I don’t try to judge them for how they do view things. It’s easy to see why they would. The only feminists that piss me off are the ones that say “respect me for my mind” while wearing a miniskirt and low cut shirt and say “well I have the right to wear this without you thinking I’m a sexual object” If you portray yourself a certain way, you will be thought about a certain way even if acting on those thoughts is completely wrong and illegal. They need to realize that. But that just my opinion.
5. If people choose not to use your photography services because they disagree with other work you’ve done they have that freedom. However, that’s like saying that because certain film studios put out certain immoral movies that you will boycott any great family movies they put out as well or that because a music label works with both musical artists that use vulgar language or use their sexuality to boost attention and sales and good wholesome artists that you will not listen to anything they put out. If that is the standard with which you judge when choosing a photographer you better be using it to make all of your purchasing choices. If they are then I have a great respect for them and they are stronger than I am although they still need to make sure they are being civil and kind in how they are making their points to you. If not they need to stop their hypocritical judging.
Basically I think you’re great at what you do and even if they disagree with what kinds of photos you take or how the models choose to dress or pose in the pictures that a lot of what they are saying or at least how they are saying it is completely uncalled for and is actually hurting their case and credibility for their points. And in the end…they can’t force you or the people you photograph to change. They can only change themselves and that’s where we’re all told to start.
I apologize for being long-winded. I just wanted to make a few points.
Ladies: Today’s society demand that women be physically fit to be considered attractive. If your fat your fat because you dont love your body and you refuse to take care of it. How do you expect someone to love you when you dont love your self.
But the same can be said for all people, to often girls “settle” for guys that dont take care of their bodies in trade for a silver tongue or an equally attractive asset.
On a side note, if your daughters aspire to be dancers then I suggest moving out of your double wide asap.
Daniel: “If your fat your fat because you dont love your body and you refuse to take care of it.”
I disagree strongly on that point. I know several women who exercise like you wouldn’t believe, but their bodies don’t regulate themselves properly, so it doesn’t make any difference. If they eat little enough to lose weight, they shake heavily and get very sick. It’s like they’re genetically programmed to be a certain weight.
Granted, that’s not true of everybody, but your comment struck me is misinformed.
“On a side note, if your daughters aspire to be dancers then I suggest moving out of your double wide asap.”
I’ve seen the home of one go-go dancer, and it puts my downtown duplex to shame.
This is pretty typical of people who don’t understand the culture. Part of the party culture is hot chicks. I used to go to parties all the time in jeans and baby doll tees, but that was the 90′s.
Not EVERY girl at these parties are dressed like this, and not all of them are paid… It’s just part of the culture, the style, and also part of what makes parties so fun… it’s all about a fashion statement, not showing your ass…. and
PS. to all those women out there who are pissed… feminisim is so 1976, get over it, the new femenism is being comfortable in your skin, whatever shape or size you are, jebus women don’t you read cosmo!
There are some things that will never cease to amaze me. One of those things is how someone can so easily skip over ALL of the beautifully captured FULLY DRESSED women and men on Eric’s page and find the one thing that can be turned into the flame war of all flame wars. How a person can close their mind to all the beauty around them and focus on only the negative, or worse, focus on something so beautiful and MAKE it negative, I will never understand. Personally I think theirs is an age which is dying and they know it. Ms Feminist is a dying breed because our sons and daughters (yes I have children) are learning how to survive in this new world by themselves. It is a necessity for them because people like that (self proclaimed activists) focus soooo much on the ugliness of this world they no longer see the beauty. Eric, you are a wonderful person with a beautiful wife. Realize that their will always be close minded people with everything negative to say about what they do not and will not fully understand. If you are going to make such a strong point about ANYTHING you might consider learning that thing first. Keep up the good work Eric and stick to your guns. You have many friends who support you fully and freely and we should be the loudest voice in your head. Let the criticism penetrate then fall away because if you let it linger you will be no better then they are.
Hahah I could hardly read this. I do not miss living in Utah! Sexuality is just not as taboo in San Francisco. There are still a few here and there but for the most part fashion is fashion, having fun is having fun, sex is sex. My only complaint is that you should get more hot pics of half naked guys!!!
I have a wretched self image and wish I looked like these girls. I’d need a face transplant though. But I would never take away from their right to feel sexual and enjoy looking great! Feminism should be about a woman’s right to do what she wants and not be punished. If she wants to be a housewife, so be it. If she wants to enjoy sex with multiple partners, more power to her. Women should love, support, respect, and appreciate each other for who they are, that’s feminism.
As for your art leading to bad behavior, that’s an argument as old as time and holds no water. Forcing a child to fit in to a mold that isn’t hers is far more likely to lead to rebellion that talking to and listening to your kids and letting them be themselves.
Good job on striking a note and making it a point to open discourse. You have a good eye for beauty and do great work.
Talented, articulate and principled…
I’m not surprised and your wife is a fortunate woman.
PLEASE keep doing what you do.
Eric, you are an amazing photographer and artist. Do not let these self righteous morons ruin your outlook, artistic vision and creativity. For God’s sake you’re not taking photos for hustler or something. And for all those people claiming conservative bible thumping, correct me if I am wrong but weren’t adam and eve created…… OMG nude?
Keep up the good work and don’t let their hatred of your talent spoil your career, or vision.
Eric Hamilton my guess is she is a miserable frumpy ole fart that can’t stand to see beautiful women because she herself has low self esteem and she’s jealous. “scantily-clad young girls” on your stream means what? Would she rather see scantily-clad senior citizens? I fell into some umm… elderly bi-porn on flickr… I promise you I wanted to gouge my eyes out after I looked at the pictures… yeah I looked! kinda like a bad accident, you know it’s terrible but you can’t turn your head away.
Everyone loves to see beauty we surround ourselves with it no matter what it is, men, women, cars, clothing, flowers etc. The human body falls into that category, some are more beautiful than others but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What you might think is attractive I may not, who cares… do what you love.
And the part that burns my butt the most is “You should take those photos down or you’ll never find any work in this state!!!”
Ok so… she is the queen of that state and says who works and who doesn’t? Wow powerful lady *almost impressed*. No matter what you do there will always be critics, take it with a grain of salt and tell her you respect her opinion but thats all it is… HER opinion, everyone has one. Just so happens you don’t have the same one. Wonder if you posted nudes what she would do? I bet her head would spin around and pea soup would spew out of her mouth.
Scantily-clad, Nude whatever… if you have the nerve to show it… I have the nerve to shoot it.
Some people are simply sad…keep up your great work, love your pictures (which are not even provocative).
As a woman myself…
Sexy photos actually inspire me to be sexy too!
I find the photo to be tasteful not tacky nor disrespectful towards women.
And what’s wrong with being a sexy playing thing anyway! She needs to let down her hair a little.
Wonderful photo Eric!
Funny that in the image above I dont see any reference to drugs, drug taking or anything illegal… scantily clad young ladies with attitude and a knowledge of what their bodies are capable of doing.
People tend to see what they want to see in images.
My answer to her with regard to the drugs issue would have been to target the importers and pushers of the drugs, as without them there would be no problem.
I fear that by perpetuating the story you may be dragging yourself into something very murky and may not be able to climb out of. It’s easy to become the target for nutters and once they latch on to you its near impossible to get rid of them.
Be cool Eric – I for one dont want to lose you as a photographer, you have too much talent.
So…apparently, the concerned mom assumes anyone wearing a revealing outfit is both doing drugs and encouraging others (kids) to do the same. What a crock!
My mother was a dancer. She wore outfits that at the time were considered rather skimpy (back in the 50′s). She wasn’t a “pole dancer”, rather she worked dinner clubs, small theaters, and even some Vegas shows. My mother never did any drugs, drank very little, and is the kindest person I’ve ever known. The “Concerned Mom” is an idiot.
Perhaps if she wasn’t so uptight, she would be in a better position to have a frank and open discussion with her daughter about the perils of drugs. I’m sure the daughter realizes her mother is clueless and as a result, would never seek advice from her.
She’s obviously one more of those people who want the freedom to do what they personally want to do (practice their chosen religion, etc.) but wish to deny others the same freedom.
Aaaaack, Don’t get me started!
Eric,
I got a good chuckle out of this. I always find it rather interesting that “feminists” find freedom objectionable, since this is the very principle with which their movement is founded. Personally, i think no matter how you feel about the content, those are some great shots. (FYI: I think the content is awesome.)
I always find it funny (much like Eminem does) that people place blame everywhere else for their children’s mistakes or evil deeds. Sure, kids have their own free will, but how much they have is determined by their parents. If your kids collect a stash of weapons in your basement and you don’t notice, then maybe they are not the whole problem. If your kids are out partying on meth and raving all night, maybe it’s because your actions (or lack thereof) are facilitating their behavior.